Online Therapy or In-Person: Which is Right for You?
Starting therapy often begins with one question: screen or room? Here’s what the research says about online and in-person therapy, where each format can help, and some questions to help you decide what suits you.
Terapia para Inmigrantes: Guía Práctica para Elegir Terapeuta
Emigrar puede cambiar tu sentido de identidad, pertenencia e incluso la forma en que expresas tus emociones. Si estás pensando en empezar terapia, ¿es mejor elegir a alguien que comparta tu idioma y cultura o a alguien que entienda tu vida en el Reino Unido? A partir de la investigación y de mi experiencia como inmigrante y terapeuta, exploro cómo el idioma, la cultura y el lugar influyen en la relación terapéutica.
Choosing a Therapist as an Immigrant: A Practical Guide
Moving to another country can change your sense of identity, belonging and even how you express your feelings. If you’re considering therapy, should you choose a therapist who shares your language and culture, or someone who understands your life in the UK? Drawing on research and my experience as an immigrant and therapist, I explore how language, culture and place can shape the therapeutic relationship.
Counselling and Psychotherapy: What’s the Difference?
Counselling and psychotherapy are often used interchangeably, but they aren’t quite the same. Learn how they differ in training, personal development and the complexity of the work, and how to decide which is right for you.
Therapy as an Operating System Update
Many of the ways we cope were learned in childhood, and they worked at the time. But like a wooly jumper in summer, they can become itchy and uncomfortable once circumstances change. In this post, I explore what neuroscience and person-centred theory tell us about updating old patterns, and why feeling safe with another person is the foundation for change.
If you'd like a different angle, I can write a version that opens with a question to draw readers in, such as "Do you ever feel like your reactions belong to an older version of you?"
AI Therapy or Human Therapy? Perhaps it is not a Binary Choice.
Millions of people are already turning to AI for emotional support, and it's meeting real needs. But it can't replace what happens between two people in a room. Here's why I think the answer to "AI or human therapy?" isn't either/or.
Therapy is not a Painkiller
There's a question that sits underneath almost every first session: how long until this stops hurting? It's completely understandable — but it often comes from expecting therapy to work like a quick fix. In this post, I look at why that expectation exists, why the relationship with your therapist matters more than any app or approach, and why feeling worse sometimes comes before feeling better.
Why Therapy Can Fail Neurodivergent and Highly Analytical Thinkers
Standard self-help advice and rigid therapeutic exercises often assume a certain kind of mind, one that isn't neurodivergent or highly analytical. This piece looks at why that advice can fall flat, what the "double empathy problem" reveals about the therapy room, and what a genuinely affirming space looks like instead.
How to Find the Right Therapist in the UK
Anyone in the UK can legally call themselves a therapist. With more choice than ever, finding the right one has never been harder. Here's how to check credentials properly, why reviews won't help, and why fit matters more than technique.

